Mary Bernadette “Mare” Von Lindern It is with heavy hearts that we announce the unexpected passing of Mary B. “Mare” Von Lindern on May 2, 2023, in Chardon, Ohio. She was born on November 3, 1959, in New York, New York to Edward, Jr. and Marilyn (nee: Kipp) Von Lindern. Mare attended St. John’s ElementaryContinue Reading
Mary Bernadette “Mare” Von Lindern
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the unexpected passing of Mary B. “Mare” Von Lindern on May 2, 2023, in Chardon, Ohio. She was born on November 3, 1959, in New York, New York to Edward, Jr. and Marilyn (nee: Kipp) Von Lindern.
Mare attended St. John’s Elementary School in Waterloo, Belgium and graduated from Indian Hills High School in Oakland, New Jersey. She then received her Bachelor’s Degree in Physical Education from Kent State University. While at Kent she was a member of the Delta Gamma Sorority and after graduation she became the House Director/Mom at the Delta Gamma House.
For the last forty years Mare was the Physical Education Teacher at St. Mary Catholic School in Chardon where she was loved and adored by all. It was at St. Mary that she was affectionately known as “Coach” by her students whom she considered her family, her “kids”. Prior to that she started her teaching career in Hackensack, New Jersey and also in Lakenhealth, England at a Department of Defense School for Girls and Boys. Hard-working is an understatement when it came to Mare! When she wasn’t at school, she had multiple part-time jobs ranging from catering and bartending to working at YMCA as well as summers at Sea World.
Mare was an active parishioner of St Mary Catholic Church in Chardon. She had a huge heart, selfless, and caring and volunteered a great deal of time for various events including CYO, the Annual Appalachian Toy Drive, and Lenten Fish Fry’s (which she never missed working one since its inception). On Thanksgiving you could find her delivering meals or serving them at local shelters.
She is preceded in death by her parents but survived by her brothers Ned of Oakland, NJ; Tom of Glen Rock, NJ; Steve (Nancy) of Budd Lake, NJ; Andrew (Darlene) of Wayne, NJ; sister Kathy (Steve) of Midlothian, VA; and nieces and nephews Jessie (Chris) Buford and Alex Haut; Ethan and Molly Von Lindern; Amanda and Steve Von Lindern; Devon Drew and Olivia Von Lindern.
All who knew her will miss her deeply but take comfort knowing how much joy Mare brought to their lives because of her dedicated, one-of-a-kind, giving nature.
Visitation will be held Wednesday, May 17, 2023, from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. at Burr Funeral Home, 116 South Street, Chardon, Ohio. Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, May 18, 2023, 10:00 a.m. at St Mary Catholic Church 401 North Street, Chardon Ohio. The Funeral Mass will be livestreamed, you may watch via this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGs5tmMbQVw
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to St. Mary’s Catholic School at 401 North Street, Chardon, Ohio 44024.
Arrangements made by the Burr Funeral Home and Cremation Service, Chardon, Ohio.
Information and condolences on-line at www.burrservice.com.
Meg Colacicco
left a message on May 18, 2023:
I want to express my sympathy for the loss of “Coach”.
I met Mare at St Mary’s my children attended school there. She really was an inspiration to me. We became friends when a Volleyball coach was needed for my daughters CYO team. Mare encouraged me to take on the job. I told her I wasn’t sure I could be a coach but she guided me through the process. I spent several years as a volleyball coach and was active in the Boosters club. That’s when we became good friends. I learned valuable things from Coach, far beyond how to coach Volleyball. I saw how selfless she was. She was constantly a good role model and helped instill good qualities in all the children she taught. Most of her teaching went far beyond Gym class.
Thanks Coach for all you did for my children and all you did for me. We will miss you. Rest in Peace
Meg Colacicco
Susan & Brian Lach
left a message on May 17, 2023:
Always smiling, always friendly, always living as a true soldier of Christ by your acts of service and love for all. Our loss ( a hole that will never be filled) here on Earth is Heavens gain! Thank you for all the kindness you showed our family. We know God is welcoming you now with open arms to your forever home!
Susan Secoy-Jensen
left a message on May 17, 2023:
The memories of time spent with Mare are everlasting. She represents the epitome of Delta Gamma sisterhood. She was the joy, humor, trust, dedication and support at our DG house, which continued throughout our lives. She knew how to make a person feel special, regardless of how much time had passed between visits. One of a kind, and her kindness was extraordinary. LITB Mare, and thank you for all that you've done.
Lisa Corrao
left a message on May 16, 2023:
Coach has left such fond memories in my children's lives, always going the extra mile to make sure no child had a bad day. I remember an assignment she gave to my daughter's class where each student had to write something nice about other students. She gathered the information and gave it to every child so when they had a bad day they could look at the kind words their classmates said about them. She was truly a kind person giving everything she had to make a positive impact on those she taught.
Bart Farris
left a message on May 10, 2023:
In my prayers and thoughts.
Barbara Harbin
left a message on May 9, 2023:
My sincere condolences to the Von Lindern Family. And everyone who loved Mare. We attended St. John’s International School together and although it has been a very long time since we have seen each other her spirit, sportsmanship and love of life are what I remember best about Mare. Following her on FB over the years it was obvious she was a woman of faith loved by many. Rest in peace Mare.
Barbara Harbin
left a message on May 9, 2023:
My sincere condolences to the Von Lindern Family. And everyone who loved Mare. We attended St. John’s International School together and although it has been a very long time since we have seen each other her spirit, sportsmanship and love of life are what I remember best about Mare. Following her on FB over the years it was obvious she was a woman of faith loved by many. Rest in peace Mare.
Sam Simones
left a message on May 8, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear about the sad news of Mares passing. I wanted to share with everyone that I worked several summers at sea world with Mare. She worked as an assistant managers in sea worlds retail department. Her best moments was when she was all light up with sea worlds night magic hats , antennas ,and glow sticks. Quite a sight to see, but unmatched by her glowing personality.
Yvonne Burton
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Mare
Was such a loving teacher and friend.
She touch so many lives ..
We will miss her deeply.
Rest in the arms of angels Coach.
The Burton Family
Yvonne Burton
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Mare
Was such a loving teacher and friend.
She touch so many lives ..
We will miss her deeply.
Rest in the arms of angels Coach.
The Burton Family
Glenda Mancuso
left a message on May 7, 2023:
We are sorry yo hear of coach's passing. She was always kind to our family. She will be missed. God bless you coach.
Mary Kay
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Sending my sincere condolences ? for Coach, whom was a colleague of mine at St. Mary’s school in Chardon, during my brief tenure. She impressed me as a true advocate for children who had their true interest at heart. RIP dear Coach, you will be remembered with deep love and sincere admiration.
Teresa Schultz-Jones
left a message on May 6, 2023:
I have not seen Mare in decades -- not since she moved from Belgium, but after meeting up again on Facebook, I am pretty sure that her smile, exuberance, openness, honesty, humor never changed. It was clear from her posts how much she loved her children at St. Mary's and the strength of her faith. We are all better for having had her in our lives. My condolences and prayers to her family.
Deirdre Farris Cochran
left a message on May 6, 2023:
Even though I have not seen Mare for decades, FB has enabled me to see how she has continued to bring happiness, laughter and purpose to all those she has touched throughout her life. Her special givings are a lesson I will carry with me. My sincere sympathies to the von Lindern family.
Renee (Wingarc) Hinkel
left a message on May 6, 2023:
Mare, one true real friend who was truly a great human being will be missed greatly. Until we meet again!!! ❤ Prayers and love going out to Mare's famiy, friends and the students that loved her.
Renee Courey
left a message on May 6, 2023:
We are shattered with this news. Mare, you will be so missed. You were one of a kind, so caring and loving and selfless and fun. We will keep your memory alive and we know you are up there as the eternal captain of God’s houseboat. Prayers and thoughts are with all of those who loved you.
Peg Hickey
left a message on May 5, 2023:
My deepest condolences to Mare's family and friends. May she rest in eternal peace and may perpetual light shine upon her.
Eileen Klear
left a message on May 5, 2023:
One of the nicest people I know.
Laurel Thompson Wachholz
left a message on May 5, 2023:
Mare was the most wonderful friend and fellow DG sister. She made me a better person by getting me to see the upside of everything. Mare was always a good example as she volunteered for almost everything. When we went out, she always knew someone, which was truly amazing. She was so friendly, upbeat and could always make me laugh. She loved her family, St. Mary's, her students their families and her friends. Mare was a truly amazing friend and roll model to the communities she served and the families that she touched. I hope knowing what a special person she was, will ease all of our grief. She will always be in my heart!
Nancy Whitehead
left a message on May 5, 2023:
I am so very sorry to learn of Mare’s passing. She was a wonderful person, so full of kindness and fun. We were in the Delta Gamma collegiate chapter at Kent State and while there were several years difference in our ages, we enjoyed our sisterhood by attending events and sharing experiences. Mare was also a good friend of my husband Tom, as he helped her settle in to her apartment in Kent years ago and they fixed and repaired her space over the garage at the DG house on South Lincoln St. to make it her home.
Mare, I hope you are at peace in the kingdom of heaven. We are fortunate that you were a part of our lives for many years and will always cherish the wonderful memories we have of you.
Eileen Klear
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Enjoyed working with Mare over the years. A very compassionate person
mary walnsch
left a message on May 4, 2023:
I will always remember you being there for the kids. Coming to everything to watch the kids. God bless you. i will always remember how you were there for Chandler and Corbin Walnsch my 2 grandsons and for my 2 grandaughters Jamie and Jennie Graham. I know all the parents and children and all of us will be missing you so much. May god be with you always Coach
John greaves
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Coach we are deeply saddened and shocked by your passing. You were a good friend and Fish Fry buddy. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again. Deepest sympathy to your family.
Love, John and Bernie Greaves and Family
Kristen Heslop
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Oh Coach. Where do I even begin? I have known you my entire life. You were one of my mom's best friends and you were a significant presence in my life growing up. Always laughing. Always smiling. Always a hand to help. In kindergarten you had to call mom and tell her to have me stop calling you Mare at school because other kindergarten students started calling you Mare haha. I will also always remember you and mom, sitting out back at your house in lawn chairs, looking over your backyard/garden, drinking coronitas and just laughing about everything. One of a kind Coach. Love you always.
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Meg Colacicco
left a message on May 18, 2023:
I want to express my sympathy for the loss of “Coach”.
I met Mare at St Mary’s my children attended school there. She really was an inspiration to me. We became friends when a Volleyball coach was needed for my daughters CYO team. Mare encouraged me to take on the job. I told her I wasn’t sure I could be a coach but she guided me through the process. I spent several years as a volleyball coach and was active in the Boosters club. That’s when we became good friends. I learned valuable things from Coach, far beyond how to coach Volleyball. I saw how selfless she was. She was constantly a good role model and helped instill good qualities in all the children she taught. Most of her teaching went far beyond Gym class.
Thanks Coach for all you did for my children and all you did for me. We will miss you. Rest in Peace
Meg Colacicco
Susan & Brian Lach
left a message on May 17, 2023:
Always smiling, always friendly, always living as a true soldier of Christ by your acts of service and love for all. Our loss ( a hole that will never be filled) here on Earth is Heavens gain! Thank you for all the kindness you showed our family. We know God is welcoming you now with open arms to your forever home!
Susan Secoy-Jensen
left a message on May 17, 2023:
The memories of time spent with Mare are everlasting. She represents the epitome of Delta Gamma sisterhood. She was the joy, humor, trust, dedication and support at our DG house, which continued throughout our lives. She knew how to make a person feel special, regardless of how much time had passed between visits. One of a kind, and her kindness was extraordinary. LITB Mare, and thank you for all that you've done.
Lisa Corrao
left a message on May 16, 2023:
Coach has left such fond memories in my children's lives, always going the extra mile to make sure no child had a bad day. I remember an assignment she gave to my daughter's class where each student had to write something nice about other students. She gathered the information and gave it to every child so when they had a bad day they could look at the kind words their classmates said about them. She was truly a kind person giving everything she had to make a positive impact on those she taught.
Bart Farris
left a message on May 10, 2023:
In my prayers and thoughts.
Barbara Harbin
left a message on May 9, 2023:
My sincere condolences to the Von Lindern Family. And everyone who loved Mare. We attended St. John’s International School together and although it has been a very long time since we have seen each other her spirit, sportsmanship and love of life are what I remember best about Mare. Following her on FB over the years it was obvious she was a woman of faith loved by many. Rest in peace Mare.
Barbara Harbin
left a message on May 9, 2023:
My sincere condolences to the Von Lindern Family. And everyone who loved Mare. We attended St. John’s International School together and although it has been a very long time since we have seen each other her spirit, sportsmanship and love of life are what I remember best about Mare. Following her on FB over the years it was obvious she was a woman of faith loved by many. Rest in peace Mare.
Sam Simones
left a message on May 8, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear about the sad news of Mares passing. I wanted to share with everyone that I worked several summers at sea world with Mare. She worked as an assistant managers in sea worlds retail department. Her best moments was when she was all light up with sea worlds night magic hats , antennas ,and glow sticks. Quite a sight to see, but unmatched by her glowing personality.
Yvonne Burton
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Mare
Was such a loving teacher and friend.
She touch so many lives ..
We will miss her deeply.
Rest in the arms of angels Coach.
The Burton Family
Yvonne Burton
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Mare
Was such a loving teacher and friend.
She touch so many lives ..
We will miss her deeply.
Rest in the arms of angels Coach.
The Burton Family
Glenda Mancuso
left a message on May 7, 2023:
We are sorry yo hear of coach's passing. She was always kind to our family. She will be missed. God bless you coach.
Mary Kay
left a message on May 7, 2023:
Sending my sincere condolences ? for Coach, whom was a colleague of mine at St. Mary’s school in Chardon, during my brief tenure. She impressed me as a true advocate for children who had their true interest at heart. RIP dear Coach, you will be remembered with deep love and sincere admiration.
Teresa Schultz-Jones
left a message on May 6, 2023:
I have not seen Mare in decades -- not since she moved from Belgium, but after meeting up again on Facebook, I am pretty sure that her smile, exuberance, openness, honesty, humor never changed. It was clear from her posts how much she loved her children at St. Mary's and the strength of her faith. We are all better for having had her in our lives. My condolences and prayers to her family.
Deirdre Farris Cochran
left a message on May 6, 2023:
Even though I have not seen Mare for decades, FB has enabled me to see how she has continued to bring happiness, laughter and purpose to all those she has touched throughout her life. Her special givings are a lesson I will carry with me. My sincere sympathies to the von Lindern family.
Renee (Wingarc) Hinkel
left a message on May 6, 2023:
Mare, one true real friend who was truly a great human being will be missed greatly. Until we meet again!!! ❤ Prayers and love going out to Mare's famiy, friends and the students that loved her.
Renee Courey
left a message on May 6, 2023:
We are shattered with this news. Mare, you will be so missed. You were one of a kind, so caring and loving and selfless and fun. We will keep your memory alive and we know you are up there as the eternal captain of God’s houseboat. Prayers and thoughts are with all of those who loved you.
Peg Hickey
left a message on May 5, 2023:
My deepest condolences to Mare's family and friends. May she rest in eternal peace and may perpetual light shine upon her.
Eileen Klear
left a message on May 5, 2023:
One of the nicest people I know.
Laurel Thompson Wachholz
left a message on May 5, 2023:
Mare was the most wonderful friend and fellow DG sister. She made me a better person by getting me to see the upside of everything. Mare was always a good example as she volunteered for almost everything. When we went out, she always knew someone, which was truly amazing. She was so friendly, upbeat and could always make me laugh. She loved her family, St. Mary's, her students their families and her friends. Mare was a truly amazing friend and roll model to the communities she served and the families that she touched. I hope knowing what a special person she was, will ease all of our grief. She will always be in my heart!
Nancy Whitehead
left a message on May 5, 2023:
I am so very sorry to learn of Mare’s passing. She was a wonderful person, so full of kindness and fun. We were in the Delta Gamma collegiate chapter at Kent State and while there were several years difference in our ages, we enjoyed our sisterhood by attending events and sharing experiences. Mare was also a good friend of my husband Tom, as he helped her settle in to her apartment in Kent years ago and they fixed and repaired her space over the garage at the DG house on South Lincoln St. to make it her home.
Mare, I hope you are at peace in the kingdom of heaven. We are fortunate that you were a part of our lives for many years and will always cherish the wonderful memories we have of you.
Eileen Klear
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Enjoyed working with Mare over the years. A very compassionate person
mary walnsch
left a message on May 4, 2023:
I will always remember you being there for the kids. Coming to everything to watch the kids. God bless you. i will always remember how you were there for Chandler and Corbin Walnsch my 2 grandsons and for my 2 grandaughters Jamie and Jennie Graham. I know all the parents and children and all of us will be missing you so much. May god be with you always Coach
John greaves
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Coach we are deeply saddened and shocked by your passing. You were a good friend and Fish Fry buddy. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again. Deepest sympathy to your family.
Love, John and Bernie Greaves and Family
Kristen Heslop
left a message on May 4, 2023:
Oh Coach. Where do I even begin? I have known you my entire life. You were one of my mom's best friends and you were a significant presence in my life growing up. Always laughing. Always smiling. Always a hand to help. In kindergarten you had to call mom and tell her to have me stop calling you Mare at school because other kindergarten students started calling you Mare haha. I will also always remember you and mom, sitting out back at your house in lawn chairs, looking over your backyard/garden, drinking coronitas and just laughing about everything. One of a kind Coach. Love you always.
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